[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/stan-sa-neodolatelnym\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/stan-sa-neodolatelnym\/","headline":"Sta\u0148 sa neodolate\u013en\u00fdm","name":"Sta\u0148 sa neodolate\u013en\u00fdm","description":"Aj ty si to niekedy za\u017eil. Sed\u00ed\u0161 v\u00a0kaviarni, vst\u00fapi nezn\u00e1my chlap\u00edk a\u00a0\u017eensk\u00e9 sa ako na povel rozpl\u00fdvaj\u00fa. Z\u00a0miesta \u010dinu odch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa s\u00a0tuctom nov\u00fdch priate\u013eov,\u00a0pracovn\u00fdmi ponukami a\u00a0pozvan\u00edm na obed. \u0160arm. To je tajomstvo ich \u00faspechu. \u010co tieto \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 kreat\u00fary rob\u00ed tak\u00fdmi bezpodmiene\u010dne zbo\u017e\u0148ovan\u00fdmi, zatia\u013e \u010do to\u013ek\u00ed z\u00a0n\u00e1s na tom tvrdo mak\u00e1me? Niektor\u00ed si myslia, \u017ee ak\u00e1si prirodzen\u00e1 elegancia a\u00a0schopnos\u0165 z\u00edskava\u0165 si \u013eud\u00ed s\u00fa formou umenia, ale v\u00a0skuto\u010dnosti za t\u00fdm stoj\u00ed aj veda....","datePublished":"2017-05-27","dateModified":"2017-05-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2a487990a452554e9d027cbab96c6e6e6d3b119f22a2b3fb9e2bcb7e021cd643?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2a487990a452554e9d027cbab96c6e6e6d3b119f22a2b3fb9e2bcb7e021cd643?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"4weld.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a281751_w2022_t1501175971.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a281751_w2022_t1501175971.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/stan-sa-neodolatelnym\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":626,"articleBody":"Aj ty si to niekedy za\u017eil. Sed\u00ed\u0161 v\u00a0kaviarni, vst\u00fapi nezn\u00e1my chlap\u00edk a\u00a0\u017eensk\u00e9 sa ako na povel rozpl\u00fdvaj\u00fa. Z\u00a0miesta \u010dinu odch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa s\u00a0tuctom nov\u00fdch priate\u013eov,\u00a0pracovn\u00fdmi ponukami a\u00a0pozvan\u00edm na obed.\u0160arm. To je tajomstvo ich \u00faspechu. \u010co tieto \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 kreat\u00fary rob\u00ed tak\u00fdmi bezpodmiene\u010dne zbo\u017e\u0148ovan\u00fdmi, zatia\u013e \u010do to\u013ek\u00ed z\u00a0n\u00e1s na tom tvrdo mak\u00e1me? Niektor\u00ed si myslia, \u017ee ak\u00e1si prirodzen\u00e1 elegancia a\u00a0schopnos\u0165 z\u00edskava\u0165 si \u013eud\u00ed s\u00fa formou umenia, ale v\u00a0skuto\u010dnosti za t\u00fdm stoj\u00ed aj veda.Faktory, ktor\u00e9 podmie\u0148uj\u00fa n\u00e1\u0161 \u00faspech v\u00a0spolo\u010dnosti a\u00a0dojem, ktor\u00fd v\u00a0nej zanech\u00e1me, maj\u00fa korene \u010falej ako si mo\u017eno mysl\u00ed\u0161. Profesor psychol\u00f3gie Alexander Todorov vo svojom v\u00fdskume dok\u00e1zal, \u017ee \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdch stret\u00e1vame, si o\u00a0n\u00e1s vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa n\u00e1zor u\u017e na z\u00e1klade n\u00e1\u0161ho v\u00fdzoru. Predsudky o\u00a0tvojej sympatickosti, d\u00f4veryhodnosti a\u00a0sp\u00f4sobilosti s\u00fa na svete menej ako sekundu po tom, \u010do zbadali tvoju tv\u00e1r.Psychol\u00f3g vo svojej knihe Face Value opisuje, \u017ee niektor\u00e9 veci, napr\u00edklad dominancia, maj\u00fa \u00fazky s\u00favis s\u00a0morfologick\u00fdmi \u010drtami. Na druhej strane, d\u00f4veryhodnos\u0165 a\u00a0atraktivita s\u00fa z\u00e1visl\u00e9 na v\u00fdraze tv\u00e1re.Tak\u00e9to bleskov\u00e9 z\u00e1very sa zdaj\u00fa by\u0165 povrchn\u00e9, ale rob\u00edme ich cel\u00fa dobu bez toho, aby sme si to uvedomovali. D\u00f4sledky m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 v\u00e1\u017ene. Vzh\u013ead tv\u00e1re napr\u00edklad m\u00f4\u017ee predpoveda\u0165 v\u00fdsledok volieb, preto\u017ee priamo ovplyv\u0148uje za koho hlasuje\u0161.Samozrejme, svoje vroden\u00e9 \u010drty tv\u00e1re nedok\u00e1\u017ee\u0161 bez oper\u00e1ci\u00ed kontrolova\u0165, no st\u00e1le ovl\u00e1da\u0161 jej v\u00fdraz a\u00a0\u00fasmev. Todorov pou\u017eil modely, ktor\u00e9 zn\u00e1zor\u0148uj\u00fa tv\u00e1re tak, aby vyzerali viac alebo menej d\u00f4veryhodne. Po\u010das testovania odhalil, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm sa jav\u00ed by\u0165 tv\u00e1r \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ia, t\u00fdm viac ju vn\u00edmame ako d\u00f4veryhodn\u00fa, spolo\u010denskej\u0161iu a pr\u00edjemnej\u0161iu. \u00dasmev zanech\u00e1va v\u00a0\u013eu\u010foch emot\u00edvny vnem, ktor\u00fd podmie\u0148uje vn\u00edmanie osoby ako extrovertnej a\u00a0spo\u013eahlivej.Dobrou spr\u00e1vou je, \u017ee prv\u00fd dojem sa d\u00e1 r\u00fdchlo a \u013eahko zmeni\u0165. Vyu\u017ei prv\u00fa vhodn\u00fa pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 na to, aby si svojim objektom zaimponoval. To je \u010das, ke\u010f prich\u00e1dza na rad \u0161arm.Jack Schafer, psychol\u00f3g a\u00a0b\u00fdval\u00fd agent FBI, tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee je mo\u017en\u00e9 vytr\u00e9nova\u0165 sa na \u0161armantn\u00e9ho mu\u017ea. S\u00e1m bol extr\u00e9mnym introvertom, ktor\u00fd sa vypracoval na extroverta. Tu je nieko\u013eko jeho tipov:\t\tNa za\u010diatok 3 jednoduch\u00e9 akcie: zdvihni na zlomok sekundy obo\u010die, spus\u0165 ho s\u00a0\u00fasmevom daj hlavu mierne na stranu.\t\tPrihovor sa, pri\u010dom nehovor o\u00a0sebe.\t\tPrejav skuto\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0to, \u010do ti hovoria. Ak sa s\u00a0tebou c\u00edtia dobre, bud\u00fa \u0165a ma\u0165 radi.\t\tAk je rozpr\u00e1vanie nudn\u00e9 a\u00a0potrebuje\u0161 z\u00e1ujem zahra\u0165, s\u00fastre\u010f sa treb\u00e1rs na odtiene jej o\u010d\u00ed. Zaberie to, preto\u017ee o\u010dn\u00fd kontakt zanech\u00e1 dojem, \u017ee sa o\u00a0\u010dloveka naozaj zauj\u00edma\u0161.\t\tVyjadri empatiu. Te\u0161 sa, s\u00faci\u0165, rob v\u0161etko, \u010do \u010dak\u00e1.\t\tPri spolo\u010densk\u00fdch udalostiach sa sna\u017e s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edkom rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o\u00a0nie\u010dom inom.\t\tAk s\u00a0nie\u010d\u00edm nes\u00fahlas\u00ed\u0161, rad\u0161ej hne\u010f neodpovedaj, ale po\u010d\u00favaj \u010falej. Takmer ur\u010dite objav\u00ed\u0161 aspo\u0148 jednu vec, s\u00a0ktorou s\u00fahlas\u00ed\u0161.\t\tSleduj spr\u00e1vy a\u00a0udalosti, m\u00f4\u017eu sa ti v\u00a0rozhovore z\u00eds\u0165.\t\tOpakuj gest\u00e1 toho, s\u00a0k\u00fdm konverzuje\u0161. Ak si pre niekoho zrkadlom, m\u00e1 to dobr\u00fa odozvu.\t\tNehovor o\u00a0sebe v\u0161etko naraz, o\u00a0inform\u00e1cie sa de\u013e postupne. Bude\u0161 teda hovori\u0165 st\u00e1le nie\u010do nov\u00e9 a\u00a0p\u00f4sobi\u0165 zauj\u00edmavej\u0161ie.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Sta\u0148 sa neodolate\u013en\u00fdm","item":"https:\/\/www.4weld.sk\/stan-sa-neodolatelnym\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]